This title was inspired by one of my all time favorite movies Anchorman with Will Farrell!! For those that might not know or remember, Sex Panther in the movie is a cologne that Brian Fantana puts on before he goes in for the kill to seduce their coworker Veronica Corningstone. Brian thinks it is a luring scent that will attract the opposite sex and make himself irresistible, but instead the scent is compared to a used diaper filled with Indian food!
Another “definition” of Sex Panther is what I often think of as a sexual role in bed. There are many names that can define the leading initiating role of sexual activity, like a ferocious tiger, a pouncing tigress or even just sex kitten. Although this probably sounds completely ridiculous and I hope all of you are laughing right now but, sometimes I wish I could play a role like these and not be completely embarrassed!
I know there are a lot of women and men out there that take the reigns on foreplay and seduction getting a little (or a lot) wild and crazy!! I am not one of them, but often wish I had that wild side where I would turn off all insecurities and potential embarrassing feelings and turn on my wild animal side being care free…. I think my husband would like it too! Don’t get me wrong, when I was younger- pre-kids and prenuptial, I was more adventurous and willing to take the lead. Since having kids, it’s almost in the negative! I know a lot of women might not want to share on here, but go anonymous if you are concerned, because I am really curious as to if you initiate sexual activity and if so do you get a little wild and dip into your animal side!!
Without revealing too much, one of my new goals for November is to initiate sex/foreplay (a few times!) and once again uncover the animal within!! I feel like this will spice up our marriage of over 4 years after 2 kids! I never thought I would lose my sex drive to two Whiney kids, but I am coming to grips with the fact that it has happened and instead of just ignoring it longer, I plan on making a change. If you are the lazy lover like me and some nights avoid sex at any cost due to mostly exhaustion and mom brain, I challenge you this week to make those moves first and surprise your partner with a flirty bad kitty!
I hope my neighbors aren’t reading this or if they are that they can still look me in the eye!!
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