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Sex Panthers!

Sex Panthers!

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This title was inspired by one of my all time favorite movies Anchorman with Will Farrell!! For those that might not know or remember, Sex Panther in the movie is a cologne that Brian Fantana puts on before he goes in for the kill to seduce their coworker Veronica Corningstone. Brian thinks it is a luring scent that will attract the opposite sex and make himself irresistible, but instead the scent is compared to a used diaper filled with Indian food!

Another “definition” of Sex Panther is what I often think of as a sexual role in bed. There are many names that can define the leading initiating role of sexual activity, like a ferocious tiger, a pouncing tigress or even just sex kitten. Although this probably sounds completely ridiculous and I hope all of you are laughing right now but, sometimes I wish I could play a role like these and not be completely embarrassed!

I know there are a lot of women and men out there that take the reigns on foreplay and seduction getting a little (or a lot) wild and crazy!! I am not one of them, but often wish I had that wild side where I would turn off all insecurities and potential embarrassing feelings and turn on my wild animal side being care free…. I think my husband would like it too! Don’t get me wrong, when I was younger- pre-kids and prenuptial, I was more adventurous and willing to take the lead. Since having kids, it’s almost in the negative! I know a lot of women might not want to share on here, but go anonymous if you are concerned, because I am really curious as to if you initiate sexual activity and if so do you get a little wild and dip into your animal side!!

Without revealing too much, one of my new goals for November is to initiate sex/foreplay (a few times!) and once again uncover the animal within!! I feel like this will spice up our marriage of over 4 years after 2 kids! I never thought I would lose my sex drive to two Whiney kids, but I am coming to grips with the fact that it has happened and instead of just ignoring it longer, I plan on making a change. If you are the lazy lover like me and some nights avoid sex at any cost due to mostly exhaustion and mom brain, I challenge you this week to make those moves first and surprise your partner with a flirty bad kitty!

I hope my neighbors aren’t reading this or if they are that they can still look me in the eye!!

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  1. Crystal Wednesday - 07 / 11 / 2012 Reply
    LOVE IT NINA! I have to say, that I used to find that a little alcohol in my system definitely makes me more adventurous lol. Now I too find that at the end of most days, I am tired or just want 'me' time once kids are in bed and sex is one of the last things on my mind. I find for us we get a little more frisky on weekends. We spend more time together then and kissing and being affectionate sometimes brings our stress levels down, and we are more apt to spend more time in the bedroom together on the weekends than during the week lol It is important to have that time together, and we try to make it a (fun) priority on those days! Good luck on your new goal! ;) Have fun!
  2. Nina Wednesday - 07 / 11 / 2012 Reply
    That's awesome Crystal! It's true you do need to make it fun and let loose a bit!! I need to make it a priority to actually enjoy and want it! I am looking forward to reaching my goals!
  3. Shery Thursday - 08 / 11 / 2012 Reply
    You are not alone, Nina! I feel like I could have written that, and I appreciate hearing it, knowing I am not the only one to feel that way. You've given the women reading this a great challenge to beat the November blahs. Thanks!
    • Nina Thursday - 08 / 11 / 2012 Reply
      Thank you for commenting Shery, I think a lot of women feel this way, but may be too embarrassed to admit (as I used to be)! I hope we can all beat the blah's and have a little fun!!

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